Why do black people even pay attention to the on going debate between black men and women?

I mean its bogus. A few dumb celebs (LiL Wayne& Young Burg) say stupid stuff, and everyone flys off the handle. Be honest, if those guys where just regular guys, no black woman would even date them, not unless they are the low class variety. I've also been on the youtube pages, and the generation-x.net site, and its the same BS. Supposedly you have highly educated black men debating with highly educated black sista's but both of them are complaining about unfit partners, but the ironic part is the criteria they are looking for is basically found in the people they are debating with (each other), so my solution, why are you talking a lot of BS when you could be hooking up with each other...backwards I swear. i mean if a guy is hood, a hood girl will be with him usually, not all black men and women are going to college so those people cancel each other out, and all your left with is educated black men and black women made for each other.